Is my boyfriend cheating if he’s a male prostitute? We have been dating for three months. He claims he’s only having sex with clients. He says that he doesn’t want to have sex with me because he’s too tired or has to work. He doesn’t want to treat me like a client.
-Dating A Prostitute
Dear Dating a Prostitute:
Your poor boyfriend engaging in the world’s oldest profession gives me a mixture of envy and awe. Oh, who am I kidding—could you imagine me giving front seat fellatio for 50 bucks a cock. I would make a terrible male prostitute. And I’m usually not that hard on myself.
You’re in an unconventional relationship, looking at your sex life in a conventional way. You knew what you were signing up for when you saw that ad on Craigslist. Reconsider what defines your relationship.
But your needs have to be met. Maybe he shouldn’t work as much? Make certain days blackout days for you? Meaning for those days he can’t get off unless it’s with you.